Questioning Wanyu, understanding Wanyu, becoming Wanyu | A solo trip to Spain
Day after day of work and housework, life feels like a circle, spinning around and returning to the starting point. Finally, I carved out some time for myself to get out and travel ✈️
For this solo trip, I chose a group tour. It's worry-free; I just follow the group and don't have to stay up late planning the itinerary. With everything settled at home, I flew to Spain, temporarily setting aside work, chores, and a pile of trivial matters. I'm not rushing to check off tourist spots, and I'm trying to use my phone as little as possible, just here to see the world 🇪🇸
🏰 Segovia | The prototype for Snow White's castle
This stop was the biggest surprise of the whole trip ✨
Seeing it with my own eyes, I finally understood why Disney used it as a blueprint. The stone castle is built against the mountain, its spires pointing straight to the sky, backed by rolling hills; it looks exceptionally magnificent on a sunny day. Standing beneath it, I couldn't help but let my imagination run wild—could a princess really be living deep inside the castle 👸
The path up the mountain has no shade, and my legs were shaking from soreness by the time I walked down. But the moment you actually stand in front of the castle, the fatigue becomes insignificant.
🪨 Ancient Roman Aqueduct
One second I was in a fairy tale, and the next I was dragged back to a scene from two thousand years ago.
The entire aqueduct is built from giant stone blocks without a drop of cement, standing firmly for nearly two thousand years. Looking up from beneath the stone arches, a sense of overwhelming pressure hits you; photos simply can't capture that awe.
The downside is also very real: zero shade the entire way 🌞 After taking a few photos, I was already a shade darker.
🏛️ Merida Roman ruins
This quiet little city is my favorite part of the trip.
The remaining theater steps and mottled city walls are all traces left by time itself. There aren't many tourists, no large tour groups crowding the place, and even the sun and wind feel slow and leisurely.
However, small shops in Southern Europe are quite casual—they open and close whenever they feel like it. Be sure to check the opening hours before you come, so you don't make a wasted trip ⚠️
🌷 Strolling through the old town of Madrid
Slowly adapting to the slow pace here 🌿
When I have time, I just wander through the old alleys and soak up the sun. I brought my Labubu along to take photos, and the cobblestone streets are great for pictures, but after walking for a long time, my feet really couldn't take it.
When I got tired, I ducked into a small street-side restaurant, ordered a paella, and had a few Tapas. It was a simple meal; the taste wasn't exactly stunning, but I still prefer our own food, haha.
🤍 Heading south to Andalusia | Ronda & Mijas
Heading all the way south to see the cliffside city and the white villages.
Ronda is built on the cliffs of a canyon, with the New Bridge spanning the deep valley. Standing on the edge of the cliff to take photos, I was looking at the scenery while holding onto my hat for dear life—the canyon wind is so strong that if you're not careful, your hat will fly away 🌬️
Mijas is covered in white houses on the hillside, with blue flower pots hanging on both sides of the alleys, and you can see the Mediterranean Sea just around the corner. The town is like a maze, constantly going uphill and downhill, keeping my calves tense. But every frame of scenery you encounter around the corner is worth the climb.
💬 Some travel musings
A long time ago, I couldn't really understand people who would leave their stable lives behind and insist on traveling far away; I always thought it was a bit self-indulgent.
After years of being caught between work and family, I finally began to understand.
I used to have a mental block: as a mother, I shouldn't take time off to travel, and I felt guilty every time I went out.
Now I've finally realized—a brief departure is not an escape, nor is it irresponsible. You have to take care of yourself first before you have the energy to deal with the endless trivialities of life.
There's no need to be tense all the time.
On this journey, I am not someone's colleague, nor am I someone's mother; I am just myself.
Along the way, I was exposed to the sun, walked excessively, and occasionally got lost in small towns. This wasn't a perfect trip, but on this trip to Spain, I feel like I temporarily became Wanyu.